How to say no lovingly, but mean it.
How to stand up for yourself, but in a way that's kind and Godly and respectful.
There are several fantastic books that address this (Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
by Drs. Cloud & Townsend comes to mind), but recently, I found an article by the amazing Shauna Niequist called:
by Drs. Cloud & Townsend comes to mind), but recently, I found an article by the amazing Shauna Niequist called:
She breaks down the different categories of people in our lives and how to prioritize both our needs and those of others. I cannot tell you how helpful and true this article is!
I love sharing my heart, but sometimes, others say it even better than I can. So check out her article and let me know! I'm actually super excited because she has a new book coming out (Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living
) that this is article is pulled from, and I can't wait to read it.*
) that this is article is pulled from, and I can't wait to read it.*
So for all of you out there, is saying no and the fear of letting people down something you struggle with?
*I'm not being paid or anything to promote her stuff, I just really love her perspective! Although, if you do click on the links through Amazon, I get a teeny little kickback! :)
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